I have a teenage son. And just like every teenage boys, he is simply intolerable most of the time. He would rather spend every waking moment with his friends rather than with his family. When he is home he looks like he is so angry with the world and carries the burden of the whole world.
One summer my husband and I decided to enroll him in a music school. We thought that he would throw a tantrum upon hearing the news that he will be spending more away time with his friends. But the surprising thing is that he smile when we told him what he will be doing for the summer break. When asked by the instructor what he wants to learn he said tama drum. After the summer break he still continue the drum lesson once a week. He really changed a lot after that and we are so happy with the change.